Many of us to a greater or lesser extent have bought into hustle culture.

The belief that we are what we do.

That our worth is reliant on productivity.

That the use of our life-force to make things happen that aren’t in congruence with our values is worthwhile

Because if we stick to these values we’ll get love, safety and success

And many people are waking up to the cost of hustle culture

For me it was burnout, an auto-immune experience of interstitial cystitis, panic attacks and heavy drinking

Others are seeing that it’s costing them their relationships, their mental health, their e/roticism

And they aren’t even getting the promised gifts of safety and success

Because human bodies aren’t here for hustle culture

Our bodies incarnated here to be the fullest expression of who we’re meant to be

When we’re in alignment with that full expression, we experience flow

Our life then has ease, abundance, pleasure and connection

All the good things

Which we give up with hustle culture

What I can feel happening broader in society and what I’ve dedicated my life to for the past 5 years

Is the prioritisation of flow

Of finding the careers, the relationships, the creative outlets that are our true expressions

But the journey from hustle culture to flow culture can be difficult

We have to face our fears, we’ve grown up in a culture that’s so focused on scarcity and limits, that being able to trust it will all work out is a hard fear to let go of

We also have to work through any trauma that we’ve experienced that colours our viewpoint that the world is a scary negative place

Sometimes it’s destabilising  to joy and pleasure if we haven’t had that experience that much

We need to find a community who are doing the same thing, as it’s really hard to do by yourself

I certainly didn’t, I have had friends, teachers, coaches and community backing me

Most people don’t know the map of going from the hustle culture to flow culture, because it’s still fairly new

I’ve spent years understanding this journey and I love supporting others who are stepping onto it

I’m really excited because I think we’re going to change the world

That during my lifetime there will be huge shifts towards people experiencing more joy and flow

And actually doing what they desire

If you’re someone who is feeling that call to step out of hustle culture into flow, message me about working together 1to1 or about my membership for women called Bean Dána/ Bold Woman, it’s for women who want to carve their own path in life.

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The membership includes 3 x 90 minute calls a month on Thursday at 6.30pm GMT/10.30 PST/1.30 EST

A WhatsApp thread with prompts to keep you leaned in to your desires, coaching from me and to the other women in the group for connection

A monthly p/ussy stroking practice where you get to learn how to listen to what your p/ussy needs and desires

Guest Workshops

Cost - 161pound a month/ VIP option which includes 1to1 Coaching 500pound a month

The membership is a rolling subscription, with a month’s notice required before you leave.